Saturday, August 20, 2011
Kill Your Fear or Let Your Fear Kills You
What is your biggest fear in life? Getting embarrassed? Taking responsibility? Unable to make the expectations of people around you? Getting rejected? Saying No? Fear can be big or small but it bring the same result...it takes out the best in us. If you are afraid to ask your crush to go out on a date then you cannot have him/her. If you are afraid to ask for an increase in salary to your boss then he will not give you. If you are afraid to take chances then you will not shine. Fear is the biggest obstacle in our goals and sometimes it causes you not to move forever. Have you ever heard of a story where somebody gets killed because of their fear? Of all the people I ask, their answers are the same, it is NO. Fear cannot kill you physically but it can kill you mentally. That is why phobias are developed, phobias are repeated fears that grow and grow everyday if we do not find a way to get rid of it. Fear can ruin your life and you can miss all the opportunities that may happen to you because of not trying. There is an acronym for F.E.A.R – Fake Emotions Always Reoccurring. According to psychiatrists fear is not real. We are just the one who gave them life. Fear is very unfair, it cannot be killed instantly but it can kill us very fast. The number one solution for killing fear is to do what you fear most and then it will stay away in our heads slowly. Imagine your life without fear are you going to be a star? A millionaire? An icon? But imagine your life full of fear. How does it look? I bet it is not pretty, so kill your fear or let your fear kills you.