Is there a point in your life where you are so tired of what is going on and you desperately wanted to have a major makeover? You want to go to the gym but your feet is too heavy and your mind is saying “why even bother, watching TV is more enjoyable.” You want to start a goal in your life but your mind is saying you can’t do it or it is too hard. Your laundry is too many, your bills aren’t paid yet, the garden is messed up and yet you find yourself sitting on the sofa watching your favorite TV program. Some part of your mind is telling you to get up and do your responsibility but the other part is stronger and saying it can be done tomorrow or next week. This attitude is very hard to change, being lazy and a procrastinator destroys each everyone’s life, if we continue to do this over and over again our lives will become miserable and we will be trapped in a vicious circle that keeps on rotating without any direction . The hidden talents will not be discovered . The riches that was supposed to be yours will fly in the air. Your dreams and ambitions and even short term goals will not turn into reality. This situation will turn into a deep depression or having a feeling of a failure. One effective solution for this problem is saying to yourself “Just Do It”, these three little words sounds simple yet it is very powerful. When you are feeling tired and you have to do something but fifty percent of your mind says yes and the other fifty says no just recite this three powerful words for at least ten times and your body will act automatically and even if you feel very lazy you will be surprised that you have finished the task. These three little words were always use by some athletes if they feel that their desire is getting weak and their motivation is going down. You can use it everyday, recite it to yourself when you have something to do and you are hesitating to do it, you can also use it when fear is holding you back to do something. These words builds courage and momentum to keep on going and going despite of the laziness and cowardly acts. It also builds confidence and motivate someone when his spirit is going down, try it when you feel so heavy and weak and you will see what difference it can make to your life.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Starting is the hardest thing to do when we have a dream and we want to pursue it. Starting is the most difficult part because in this stage our doubts and fears always appear and it always serve as an excuse for us to choose different direction or in other words choose the easier path. What people say is one of the big reasons why someone hesitate to follow his dreams, people may say "you are too old", "it is very impossible", "you are crazy", "that was ridiculous" and many more things to put you down, on the other hand you will begin to think that they were right you will easily get influenced by their opinions and give up your dreams. This is the decision that we must avoid, we should not get easily influenced by what other people say, we should take the initiative and make a strong decision that we will back up our dreams and do whatever it takes to make it happen, after all we you are the one who will suffer for pursuing your dreams and not the people around you. So the first thing to do is think of a dream that you wanted to pursue no matter if it seems to be so impossible to others. Make a commitment to yourself that you will take necessary steps to make it happen, be proud of it and don’t be afraid to open it up to your friends, relatives or office mates, the more you are serious to talking about your dreams the more you will be able to do some actions to make it happen, start with what you have even if you don’t have the necessary skills or resources to make a good starting point. Remember that all big times starts as small time. Be sure to take baby steps everyday and commit to yourself that no matter how hard the situation is you will take positive action and will waste no time to make your dream a reality, sooner or later you will even be amazed of the momentum that is going on your way and you are almost there, time is very fast and you will not even noticed that you are already successful, be brave enough to weather the storm every time it strikes you because no matter how hard you try to avoid it, it will come on your way. Those storms are what makes us strong and it is the biggest barometer of our personality, without those storms we cannot say that we are successful because the more storms we face the more chances of becoming successful. Starting is the hardest part of the journey that we are taking but once you make a good and fast start back it up with determination, single mindedness and confidence there is no doubt that you can go wherever you want and finish the race victorious.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Each one of us has an ugly past that we cannot forget and has a great impact on our daily activity. This past can be about our love ones, our failures, embarrassment , enemies or an event that badly hurts us.
No matter how hard we try to forget this ugly past it keeps on haunting us and it shows automatically even if we don’t want it to show. It is extremely difficult because once it shows again we cannot do anymore but to think about it and it affects our daily productivity.
This article will help you on how to deal with your past and let go of the pain that is torturing our mind which also affects our body. There are two best possible ways to forget your past the first is ACCEPTANCE , we should learn how to accept our past no matter how difficult it is, we should accept that it is part of our life and it cannot be changed anymore, let us put in our minds that no life is perfect and each one of us even the richest, smartest or wealthiest people has a bitter past in their lives. We should keep in mind that it is normal to make mistakes, be hurt by our loved ones, get embarrassed because we are just human beings and there is no perfect life in this world. Second best possible way to forget our past is FORGIVENESS, the art of forgiving is very powerful, not only it eases away our burdens but it also turn our enemies into friends. It gives us the peace of mind that will make our lives easier and easy to handle, even if you are blaming yourself about the misfortune of your life learn how to forgive yourself, it takes away the stress that is ruining our life everyday and it makes us happier in little ways, at first it is very difficult to apply these ways but once we learn to practice it consistently everyday. I guarantee you that it will change more than fifty percent of your life, you will feel more happier confident and there is a feeling that you have a brighter future waiting for you, don’t forget that past means nothing anymore and it cannot change your life, the only thing that matters is now because we can change our lives and control our future because of the time that we have now.
Another challenge, another victory
Another suffering, another chance of winning
No Matter how hard the rain is, even if the sun hides
I will stand up tall and raise my pride
Luck may not show, fate may cover my eyes
I will find my destiny and keep my head high
Dwyane says fall seven but stand up eight
I can take 12 of them and still stand straight
Fireballs of defeat is falling,
Thorns of sorrow is growing
I will never give up on my dreams
I will push harder while moving
Fairies may curse me for my belief
Wizards may cast a spell to stop my heart
I will keep on believing
I will never stop dreaming
The world may close his windows, the universe may shut his doors
I will keep on drilling the hole and make my way inside
Thunder may struck me, hurricanes may eat me
It may hurt me badly but surely wont kill me
Sweet becomes sour, strength becomes pain
My passion becomes stronger, my confidence remains
Tears will drop blood will flow
Nothing can stop me, all of them will bow
1 is my number A is my letter
B is unacceptable, 2 is beatable
Living on the edge is what I pledge
I accept pain because I want to gain
The world of unknown here I come
The king of pain is already in town
Haters be ready to frown
Because I'm here to take my crown
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Reaching our dreams is easier said than done, as we go along the way there will be a lot of obstacles that will block our eyes from seeing our dreams, these obstacles are challenges that will test our capability to persevere to turn our dreams into reality. Some of us once feel the uncertainty will easily give up and change directions, yes they will be comfortable once they do it but once they feel uncomfortable for the second time they will again change directions that will turn their lives into miserable and vicious circle that has no ending and keep on repeating over and over again. Some people will try one more time but for the third time they will also give up but some people like me who has face all the most difficult challenges in life will keep on moving and moving forward until the final destination has been reached, this is the key to being successful we should stick to our goals and never give up despite of the most difficult consequences that we can ever face, we should take the journey inch by inch and enjoy the ride, enjoy the hardships that will make us strong, as we take another inch this will give us momentum to keep on going, persevering and reach our dreams, people may call you crazy but don't ever let that thought go into your head, just tell to yourself "one more inch, I can do this, I will see a life once I take another inch" and soon you will not even notice that you are already successful, those inches once combined will turn into a thousand yards of experience that no one can ever teach you, those inches will make you strong and never back out on any challenge, so what are you waiting for? common move forward, take another inch and get closer to your dreams.