Sometimes over complicating things make our lives harder than it should be. We over looked the solutions because we focus on problems and not on the solutions. A good example is a student who is doing his assignment in Math, he cannot solve a problem because he just look at it and when he saw that the problem is long he over react and think that it is so difficult, he didn’t know that the problem was already discussed by their professor and all he need to do is analyze it carefully. Another great example is a wife wants to prepare her husband a special dish on their 50th anniversary, because she wanted to make it special she research for a special recipe and found one on the internet. The ingredients were very hard to find so the wife got frustrated and when their anniversary come the couple just ended up eating in a fancy restaurant. We make our lives harder because the moment we felt difficulties we tend up to get caught up on that feeling and never look for simple solutions that can get the job done. On the first sample, the student could just go to the basics, read the problem very well even if it is too long, look for his notes and do his best to answer the question instead of planting on his mind that they never have any lesson like that and all he need to do is copy answers from his smart classmates. On the second sample the wife could have just look for alternate ingredients that can still come up with better taste instead of getting frustrated and blaming the supermarkets why their stocks are not complete. When we change our perspective about the problems that was given to us we can solve it easier and we can even enjoy solving it despite of its difficulties.