Two Meanings of Waiting

There are two meanings of waiting, one is waiting for nothing and the other is moving while waiting. Let me discussed you the first one, waiting for nothing is very simple it is like waiting to have a job then an email was sent to your inbox and says you are not qualified. You are very optimistic so you apply for another job again and wait for the result again. This time no email was send to you, the company was very professional and called you and tell you that you are not qualified for the job but you may apply for another position, a less challenging and smaller salary position and because you didn’t like it you refuse to take the chance. You wait for another job opening and it makes you wait for months and to keep yourself away from boredom you go to party every night, drinking and complaining to your friends how unfortunate you are in finding the right job. This is waiting for nothing, you keep yourself stuck in a position where destiny will dictate your life where to go.  Moving while waiting is totally different, you are still waiting for something but you are aware that it might not come so you take an alternative way. A perfect example is a 30 year old man waiting for his approval in working for overseas, while this guy is waiting he still working for part time jobs so his pocket won’t be empty and at least he still have something when he gets rejected for his application. Other than that he is also operating a small business that will provide his family in the future, this business is buy and sell it only provide small profits but the good thing is it is earning. Waiting for something for a long time drives us crazy and hopeless, we need to find an alternative that will somehow ease the burden that we carry on our shoulders.

Quotes for the Dreamers XXI

1. The more sufferings you take, the more victories you can make.
2. Aim for tens and you will get ones, aim for hundreds and you will get tens, aim for thousands and you will get hundreds, WOW! Success is really just a matter of numbers, can you believe it?
3. Dream big or don’t dream at all, think big or don’t think at all and most importantly do big or don’t do at all.
4. The closest antonym of SUCCESS is watching TV, the second is facebook.
5. You can do it if you really want it but if you don’t want it then you can’t do it even if you can.
6. Every daily decision may it be big or small will affect our future.
7. You don’t know why all of these sufferings, trials and hardships are happening but there is one thing you should know... You will keep on plodding until you are in a better situation again.
8. A challenge reveals our true character to the world so if you don’t like challenges your character is already revealed.
9. Hardwork will only promise you survival but if you pair it with belief and risks, it can promise you success.
10. People will only believe you for a while if you gave them words but they will believe you forever if you show them evidences.

Everything Is Fine If You Are Still Alive

Is worrying ruining your life a lot? Was there a day when you can’t work effectively or cannot move at all because of worrying too much about what might happen or what will your future would be because of the problem that you are facing at the moment? If you will examine the history of your life you already experienced a lot of problems before right? and those problems didn’t kill you at all. Problems will never leave us till we die, it is already part of our lives and everyday living. Even the smartest and richest people have problems and don’t be surprised if you learn that their problems are bigger than yours. Problems just come in different appearances, once you solve another problem then you will breath for a short period of time then here comes another one. Funny isn’t it? No matter how you wish to avoid problems it will still come to you because problems are part of our lives, it is what makes us strong and it it reveals our true character to the world. Just always remember that no problem cannot be solve and everything is fine if you are still alive because you can still solve your problems and you are the only one who can make solutions to your problems. Image from FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Learn By Your Own

When we were young as a toddler we were always taught by our parents and teachers, they taught us how to read, write, count, sing dance etc. Same as we grow old, on the first day of our job we are trained by supervisors or seniors and taught how to operate the job that was assigned to us. What if you no longer love your job and want to find another one? Is your experience enough and will your knowledge help you to find a new one? In this fast face world that we are living today one skill is not enough to provide your family a better living. What if you don’t have enough money to go to school? What if no one will teach you again? This is the time when you should learn how to learn on your own. The technology is very advance we can find all the information on the internet by just a simple click and a simple type away. Stop asking very basic questions to others that you know in yourself if you only exert a little effort you can find the answer. We are living in a fast pace environment that people are too busy to entertain your basic questions. Start to improve your self reliance and start learning everyday by your own. By this kind of learning you will be able to succeed rapidly and when you succeed no one will belittle you and tell you that you are once his apprentice. Image from FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Trust Your Own Strength

Many of us believe that their lives will change in the hands of politicians, luck, cult etc., they forgot to trust their own strengths and they just leave their fate on whatever decisions those people gave to them. The reality is people whom you trust will just give you false promises that will lead you to nothing, they will just use you for their own purpose and selfish motives. Even if you thought that their words are promising and for real at the end you will realize that what they’ve said didn’t change your life at all. Never let anyone or anything control your life or your way of living because you have the power to change it. By trusting your own strengths you will become more decisive and you will have the power to design your destiny. You will never rely on others’ decisions anymore and you will become more proud of yourself because of your ability to take control of the situations that is happening in your life. By trusting others’ strength only means that their strength is your strength and when those people got weak you will eventually become weaker but if you trust your own strength, all you have to do is become stronger everyday by developing skills that you needed and everything will take care of itself. Our minds are like muscles, it keeps on expanding once we train it every day so never ever doubt yourself that you cannot become great one day. Image from FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Set Your Mind

I want you decide now if you really want to make your dreams happen. Set your mind completely and never let anything destructs you for the realization of your dream. Work everyday to make that happen and even if you are not seeing results just keep on going and going. Your mind should be set to success and no images of failure should enter it. Take control of your mind and never let it control you. Dedicate yourself to hardwork and nothing but hardwork. Even if others are laughing and mocking you just remember that your mind is set to success and nothing can change that mindset forever. Photo from:FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Just Make It Simple

Sometimes over complicating things make our lives harder than it should be. We over looked the solutions because we focus on problems and not on the solutions. A good example is a student who is doing his assignment in Math, he cannot solve a problem because he just look at it and when he saw that the problem is long he over react and think that it is so difficult, he didn’t know that the problem was already discussed by their professor and all he need to do is analyze it carefully. Another great example is a wife wants to prepare her husband a special dish on their 50th anniversary, because she wanted to make it special she research for a special recipe and found one on the internet. The ingredients were very hard to find so the wife got frustrated and when their anniversary come the couple just ended up eating in a fancy restaurant. We make our lives harder because the moment we felt difficulties we tend up to get caught up on that feeling and never look for simple solutions that can get the job done. On the first sample, the student could just go to the basics, read the problem very well even if it is too long, look for his notes and do his best to answer the question instead of planting on his mind that they never have any lesson like that and all he need to do is copy answers from his smart classmates. On the second sample the wife could have just look for alternate ingredients that can still come up with better taste instead of getting frustrated and blaming the supermarkets why their stocks are not complete. When we change our perspective about the problems that was given to us we can solve it easier and we can even enjoy solving it despite of its difficulties.

Questions to Ponder

I have questions for you that if you take seriously will keep you thinking and can lead you to taking steps that will make your life better. Is that the best thing you can do? Is what you are doing now beneficiary? Are you making your parents or brothers and sisters proud? Are you taking risks or you are too scared to chase your dreams? Is watching TV for 5 hours a day really fun and makes you strong? When was the last time you feed your mind with positive thoughts and useful information? Are you proud of your accomplishments? When was the last time you take the biggest challenge of your life? Are you a fighter or a flighter? Are you just wishing or are you doing? Are you positive or negative? Do you wish for someone’s failure? Do you love criticizing people because you cannot do what they can? Are you living the life you want? Do you always make promises that you know you cannot fulfill? Do you eat more than you can digest? Are you happy being lazy? Is laziness helped your life? What are your dreams? Do you think you have two lives so you take your life for granted now? How many extra hours do you put in your work? Do you feel successful? Do you love to talk instead of walk? Why do you always do those bad habits even if you know it’s not right? Are you worried about your future? How many wonderful places have you explored? How much money is in your bank? Is it enough?

Don't Save the Best for Last

When we were young we are always been thought by our parents that always save the best for last. Save the best dress for party, save the best effort in dying seconds of a game, save the best plates for important visitors, save the best food for Christmas and many other situations. Why do we have to do that if we can give our best in any given time? Giving our best doesn’t need to be on important situations or people only.  We must give our best anytime because that is the best thing to do, we should not choose what time or place to give our best, we may never know what will happen tomorrow and giving our best anytime will take away any regrets and it will give satisfaction to our life.

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Quotes for the Dreamers XX

1. What is nice about life is it doesn’t have any limitations for pursuing your dreams, you can fail as many times as you can but it can never told you to stop.
2. Our life doesn’t need to be perfect it just needs to be appreciated and well lived.
3. Getting the job done is much better than trying to be perfect
4. Never fear your fear because it doesn’t fear you either.
5. Your outside world is the product of your inside world so cultivate positive, exciting and courageous thoughts rather than negative and destructive thoughts.
6. Make sure you leave everything on the line, every idea should be executed, make not just an extra effort but 120 percent effort, don’t just try instead make it happen.
7. Everyone one of us has experienced the feeling of very tired, defeated, overwhelmed, left alone and hopelessness but what makes the difference is the ability to get back on track and keep moving on despite of the burdens you carry on.
8. You don’t need to be like them, you just need to be YOU.
9. No one will believe in you if you don’t have evidences to back up your words so quit talking and start creating.
10. Be a gambler not in casinos but in challenges of life.